How to know your boyfriend loves you

Have you been disturb before now on how to know your boyfriend loves you, If yes then read to the end because I outlined 12 signs to solve your worries and let you know when you are truly been loved by your boyfriend even without him saying it..

‘I love you’ is a three powerful  and eight letter strong engine word but inasmuch as the strongness  in modern days relationship, your boyfriend can tell you countless times that he loves you and still won’t mean it, He might still say it always and still meant he lust after you in his mind..Not all people that says the word I love you meant it, they are just mere words notwithstanding how powerful it can be,  actions still counts above all..

Moreover, some use this three powerful words ‘I love you’ only when they really do and will want to show it..Love is tricky, be wise but don’t act too wise around it..

How To know Your Boyfriend loves You..

1. He Includes You In His Future Plans;

You can ascertain that your boyfriend loves you when he always talk about a future with you inclusive, he includes you in his plans, he sees you together with him always like living together, having kids, kind of business such case just know that he loves you and wants to spend the rest of his life with you.

2. He Doesn’t Give You Unnecessary Conditions;

If your boyfriend starts giving you certain conditions, then the love is not real. For example, as As a girl, if your guy threatens to quit the relationship because you refused to have sex with him, please quit the guy; he doesn’t love you; he is just after your body. The guy will dump you after giving him sex.

3. He Cares So Much About You;

If your boyfriend didn’t hear from you nor see you for about 1 week and yet doesn’t bother to call you or search for you, such partner does not love you. A person who loves you will like to see you or hear your voice everyday.
He will be concerned about you always, he will care for you always; he will always ask you if you have eaten or not, how is your health, hope you are not bored, etc.

4. He Is Always Happy To See You;

If your boyfriend loves you, he will be very happy whenever he sees you or hears your voice via phone.
He will also keep communication 100%. Sometimes, even if he’d be busy, he will reach out to you and he will tell you about his schedule.

5. He Will Always Respect Your Opinions;

Your boyfriend will always respect your opinion when he is in love with you, he will always respect your word and will be ever willing to accept your correction whenever you correct him.

6. He Will Always Assist You Willingly
If your boyfriend loves you, he won’t mind paying your bills, he will always be willing to assist you happily when the need arises. He will support you financially in his little way.

Note this, when it comes to financial responsibility 100% of men would want to spend on you if the money is there, it gives a man so much joy when he provides for his woman. “Money”.

7. He Will Love You For You;
If your boyfriend really loves love, he will love you for who you are and not for what you are( i.e he will not just love you because of your beauty,talent, profession or academic qualifications..

8. He Will Be Eager To Connect You With His Family And Friends;
If your boyfriend truly loves you, he will be eager to introduce you to his family and friends.
He shows you off around his friends. You are part of his circle, he is not afraid to show you off and tell his family and friends how much you mean to him and how proud he is to have you and he will in turn love your family members too..
This sign really shows a guy is serious with you, and will want to spend the rest of his life with you, unless otherwise..

9.  He Keeps His Cool During Arguments;

Fights and arguments can bring out the worst in anyone, but watch out if your boyfriend makes effort to stay calm and resolve the situation just know that he loves you and values the relationship..He sees the relationship as something worth keeping and not fighting over.

10. He always use the word “We“;
Pay attention to anytime you boyfriend is talking with you , if he always use the word ‘we’ ( despite been absent minded)when talking about future plans.. it simply means he loves you very much and he’s totally committed to you and considers the two of you a great package deal.

11. He Doesn’t Keep A Secret Behind You;

He Doesn’t keep a secret where you are
If you are always the first your boyfriend informs about anything, maybe a death in the family, latest achievement, a sudden occurrence, or personal and confidential information, just know that he loves and cherish you so much, He will tell you about his business like he’d let you into his plans, he will invite you in his personal bubble, a level of intimate closeness.

12. He Always Want To BE With You;

A guy who truly loves you will free his time for you no matter how hectic his schedule is. Remember that there is a big difference between someone who frees his time to talk to you and someone who talks to you during his free time.

13. He Always Want To See You Happy;

If your boyfriend loves you, he will make every effort to make u laugh always. He never miss any  opportunity to make a joke or to make a silly face because your laughter is probably his priority. He will be comfortable enough to make a fool of himself to make you laugh. A guy who is into you loves to see you smile and will do everything he can to bring it out, especially when you’re not in a happy mood.

14. He Doesn’t Give Up;
No matter any situation that may face the relationship for the fact it is what he can do, he will always want to try out and not give up .He doesn’t quit without a good fight. No matter what your relationship has, he will try his best to find a solution to solve it. He doesn’t care what others will say. He always endures, and he doesn’t lose hope.

15. He Gets Jealous But Controls It..
To get jealous is just normal in a relationship because it is a sign of overflowing love. It is also a sign that he’s afraid to lose you. However, a guy who truly loves you will not be overly jealous because he understands that it is bad for you and your relationship but he won’t let his jealousy control him but he would be the one to be the controller..

16. He Makes You His Priority;
If he makes you his priority, he will consider you a special person, and a special person means extra attention, extra effort, and on top of the priority list. Another bonus thing is if he goes the extra mile, never to make you feel neglected.

17..He Stands By You Always

If you boyfriend loves you, it will be with you through thick and thin, nothing will be more important than being there for you in times of trouble. He’ll step up and be there no matter what the situation is.

Read more;

How To Know Your Girlfriend Loves You



Love is powerful when said but it is more powerful when acres upon..So don’t just settle for the mere words when your boyfriend proclaim them to you , watch out for the signs I listed in this blog post to know if he really meant the love language..

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